I love to have and use to like doing it 2 times a day but now its so to even have sex.
As terrible as it can be, not talking about it doesn't solve anything—because, yes, in many cases, can be treated.
How many inches does it take to satisfy a woman? Cervical orgasms are achieved by stimulating the cervix — not penetration.
So perhaps try a little more foreplay before he penetrates you and if it hurts still make him go shallower to just stop.